1. Discover the Internet together
Be the one to introduce your child to the Internet. For both parent
and child it is an advantage to discover the Internet together.
Try to find web sites that are exciting and fun. Hopefully you
will together achieve a positive and conscious attitude to Internet
exploration, which again could make it easier to share both positive
and negative experiences in the future.
2. Agree with your child on
a framework for Internet use in your home
Try to reach an agreement with your child on the guidelines which
apply to Internet use in your household. Here are some tips to
get started:
- How to treat your personal information (name, address, telephone,
e-mail)
- How to behave towards others on the net (chat, e-mailing, messaging)
- What type of sites and activities are OK or not OK in our family
3. Encourage your
child to be careful when disclosing personal information
It is important that adults are aware that many web pages made
for children require giving out personal information to access
content. Being conscious of when and where it is all right to
reveal personal information is vital. A simple rule could be that
the child should not give out name, phone number or picture without
your approval.
4. Talk about the risks associated with meeting an e-pal
face to face
Adults should understand that the Internet could be a positive
meeting place for children, where they can get to know other children
and make new friends. However, to avoid unpleasant experiences,
it is important that children do not meet strangers they have
met on the net without being accompanied by an adult, friends
or others they trust. In any case, the child should always have
their parents' approval first.
5. Teach your child about source criticism on the net
Most children use the Internet to improve and develop knowledge
in relation to schoolwork and personal interests. Net users should
be aware that not all information found online is correct. Educate
children on how to verify information they find by comparing to
alternative sources on the same topic.
6. Don't be too critical towards your child's exploration
of the Internet
Children may come across adult material by accident on the Web.
If a child intentionally searches for such web sites, remember
that it is natural for children to be curious about off-limits
material. Try to use this as an opening to discuss the content
with them, and perhaps make rules for this kind of activity. Be
realistic in your assessment of how your child uses the Internet.